I got a new tattoo that says ( Beautiful )
I have grown up being bullied all the time and you think at the age of 29 it should be over but unfortunately NO! I have been bullied for simply being different! Growing up I was around my cousins that had a totally different mentality and after becoming a mom And growing up to being an adult I was in a society where they simply loved to judge by the way others looked like or stand out!
It bothered me for a very long time and it still does in a way but I grow up and I had the courage to simply not care about what other think or say about me because deep inside I was proud of who I was and in a way it made me a stronger person.
My kids have been bullied as well and as a mom it totally breaks my heart! In the past when the kids were younger and other kids would say nasty things to them for being over weight I would always tell my kids your batter then them!
They are rude kids, we never talk like that with people!
Always be sure that their saying harmful words because deep inside they are sad or mad!
Their just jealous!
As they grow older and I had more info about how kids feel, every time a kid would say something bad I would simply look at him with a smile on my face and say ( that’s not nice to say ) and walk away but deep inside I’m sorry for saying what I’m about to say! I wanna slap that kid so hard for hurting my babies!!!!! I tell my kids after that that was bad and very hurtful! I’m sorry that you had to hear that but we are batter people then them give them a warm kiss.
Some people would say kids are just being kids Amani ! All kids are mean!!! No I’m sorry my kids would never say something harmful to other kids that’s impossible
And I always tell my kids if you see anybody at school being bullied you should speak up and say its wrong and try to help in anyway!
Like i said in the beginning I recently got a tattoo that says Beautiful it was a stand! I told my kids about why I got it and what it meant.
No matter how you look! How big or small you are! How different you think! Everybody is beautiful in their own unique way 😉
Kids, parents, and schools need more resources to teach about bullying, I truly think that all schools must have programs in place for anti-bullying as well as mandatory reporting by teachers. Schools cannot choose to ignore a bullying problem, they must act!!
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